You’re newly engaged (congratulations!) and staring at that sparkly ring on your finger as you start planning your big day. You know costs will be high, so you want to save money where you can, and you think, instead of hiring a wedding planner, I’ll do most of the planning myself and hire only a day of wedding coordinator to help on the big day.
But what exactly is a day of wedding coordinator? While a wedding planner is involved in the planning process from day one from the invitations, booking vendors, design, and more, a day of coordinator arrives for the wedding weekend or day to oversee all of the thoughtful planning you’ve put into the event.
We’ve all heard the saying, your wedding is the biggest day of your life, so it’s natural to want it to be absolutely perfect. After all, you’re inviting all your closest friends and family and the pictures will last forever. So, will a day of wedding coordinator save you headaches on the big day or will it only add more confusion to bring someone in, albeit a professional, at the last minute?
Read on to find out more about day of wedding coordinators and whether or not they’re the right choice for you.
At its core, being a wedding coordinator is about overseeing the execution of all your wedding plans. Managing vendors when they arrive, overseeing the final walk through of the venue, managing your wedding rehearsal, managing the timeline of events for your wedding and reception, and more.
You’ve already set the menu and hired the entertainment you want, chosen who will be giving speeches and told your band or DJ what songs you’d liked played for specific moments, and your day of wedding coordinator is there to ensure those things happen and give you a few less things to worry about.
If you’re confident you can plan your wedding yourself but don’t want to sweat the small things when the date arrives, a wedding coordinator can be just the help you need. Some venues also offer a venue coordinator as part of their package, but venue coordinators are there to oversee the venue itself, while the wedding coordinator oversees your wedding plans.
For some, a wedding to-do list calls for much more time and energy than just the day or weekend of help provided by a day of wedding coordinator.
Our friends at Scarlett Rose Weddings + Events say, “The unfortunate truth is, we still receive many inquiries from wonderful couples looking to hire a day-of coordinator. And our response is always the same: Absolutely, we’d love to help! However our base package is called Wedding Management and starts 4-6 weeks before your wedding day. Because really, you don’t want someone just showing up on the day of your wedding trying to execute something they aren’t familiar with!”
You have spent months, maybe even years, on wedding planning, and at the last minute, you want to invite a wedding coordinator in for just the day and expect them to be fully prepared and know all of the inner workings of this day and the vendors you’ve hired and ensure you have the stress-free wedding you deserve? For some, that’s leaving far too much to chance.
Wedding coordinators have been used for years and as you might imagine, the term and job description has evolved over time, which why these days, a wedding coordinator does a lot more than just show up for your big day. Like with Scarlett Rose, their wedding coordinator package starts long before your wedding day.
The biggest concern we hear often when someone is planning a wedding is in regards to price. And if you see a fee of $2,000 for a day of wedding coordinator who only shows up for eight hours on your wedding day, you might think that is a bit hefty.
However, with more information, we hope you can see the number of hours that truly goes into a wedding coordinator’s base package. For many, their work begins weeks or months before your big day. It includes a venue walk through, wedding timeline planning, vendor confirmation, contract review, rehearsal assistance, plus generally 14-16 hours working on your actual wedding day.
Throw in frequent emails and calls with you and the vendors, and all of a sudden this wedding coordinator is now putting in about 40 hours of work just for you.
While a day of wedding coordinator does much more than show up on just the day of your wedding to handle simple logistics, it still might not be enough for what you envision for your wedding.
A wedding planner is with you from the moment you start planning your wedding, helping with everything from budget, booking vendors, designing the look of your wedding, sending invitations, floor plan and seating arrangements, and much more. While a wedding coordinator might spend a total of 40 hours working on your wedding, a wedding planner can spend upwards of 100 hours dedicated just your big day.
After that, your wedding planner will be there on the big day to fill the same duties of a wedding coordinator.
Yes, a wedding planer will cost you much more than a day of wedding coordinator, but if you want a professional in the business who knows all the vendors to contact, exactly what needs to be on your wedding to-do list, and someone who will be with you for months up until your wedding day, then you want to hire a wedding planner.
As we’ve discussed, a day of wedding coordinator works for more than just your wedding day and can take plenty of stress off your shoulders, but depending on your hopes for your wedding, spending the extra money on a committed wedding planner might be worth it in the end.
If you’re looking for something in between, wedding management, event management, or month of coordinators are the way to go.
Whatever you decide is best for you, your wedding is the biggest day of your life so far and we want it to be as perfect as you do. View our list of preferred wedding vendors in the San Antonio area for help with your big day, and contact Kendall Point if you’re searching for the most picturesque venue.